thread: 2006-03-22 : Mechanics and Flinching

On 2006-03-22, Brand Robins wrote:

“But I wouldn’t use “hurt” and “unsafe” to refer to that, myself. Delivering passionate adversity to my character is a loving, generous act; it’s anti-unsafe, it’s you living up to and going beyond your side of the bargain. Failing to do so is much more unsafe, socially, between us.”

I find it interesting that I have heard these exact words used by folks into B&SM to describe the needed commitment to each other. I guess that Chris was onto something:


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